How to score some points with the squad and the crew? Check the advice from the guru!
Ever feel like you’re being slept on? Like you’re not being vibed with, not appreciated, like you’re invisible? It’s like a major buzzkill, right? You’re not alone with those vibes. Life be like that — sometimes you gotta deal with it, especially when it’s about your own stuff. It ain’t always easy to just brush it off and move on.
For instance, if someone at work’s acting up, or someone steps on your kicks on the bus, or cuts you in line, that’s whatever. You can bounce or shrug it off and do your own thing. But when it’s someone important, like a partner, a homie, or whoever, you can’t just walk away. So, what’s the deal?
There’s this lit rule that rules and helps you earn mad respect. Ready? Get this: peep the vibe and create some space. Just like that. Sometimes it’s worth stepping back, holding your own, building your own space, chilling solo, working on your moves, and figuring things out from a different angle.
When I say «space,» I mean all the tangled connections: homies, family drama, romance. You know that famous saying «Distance makes the heart grow fonder»? We often get used to perks and start seeing them as stuck. That’s where different hacks come in, but the main one is keeping your distance.
Think about this: why does advice from the guru hit different than from a buddy, even if they’re saying the same thing? It’s all about closeness. You’re distant from the guru. It hits different. And that’s why you vibe with it and value it.
Sometimes it’s a jungle out there, but you gotta figure out your own vibe of distance. Don’t get caught up, or you might mess up the flow. There are tricks: if you distance yourself from those who bug you, they might just forget about you and bounce! Then ask yourself: do they even matter to you? Are they just looking for drama?
Only a person with a solid nerve, who understands their game, can pull back and handle their own space. And people respect that. They respect those who know their worth.
Let’s think about who often falls into the trap of being underestimated? Do you get played if someone tries to mess with a strong, independent vibe? Doubt it. And if someone pulls tricks on them, they end up looking like the fool.
What’s the mix here? Victims often get underestimated. And if you have that victim vibe, you’re constantly blaming someone: the country, the squad, the world, the boss. Unconsciously you paint a target on yourself: «Come at me.» And they come. Some might not even realize this pattern, but the subroutines keep running on autopilot, and the victim always draws in the bully to their den, while the bully, in turn, seeks out a victim to unload all their pity.
Here’s the fresh scoop: there’s a way out of the victim loop. Whether you wanna try on your own, dive into the core of the issue, not the problem. Put in some effort, pinpoint the weakness, why the foundation is shaky. Why aren’t you carving out a slice of your life, constantly raging at someone?
Strengthen your stance, and the issue of underestimation will vanish completely. Analyze, inject vibes, ignite your connections, care for the mob. 🌟