Yo, so check it — Marriage ain’t about the plans, it’s all about meeting the right person, ya feel me? Age ain’t nothin’ but a number — whether you’re 18, 28, 30, or 40, it don’t matter at all. The key is finding the right one. Once you’ve found ’em, it’s a done deal, no questions asked — tie the knot, bro. ‘Cause having a family life actually boosts your hustle. You stay focused, switch up your crew, chill less, and stop wastin’ time. When you’re married, you ain’t gotta flex as much ’cause you gotta provide for the fam. It makes you more practical, see?
Plus, a good wifey usually got your back. Unlike friends who might flake, a wifey’s got your back always. She’s like your biggest fan, always there to support, motivate, and steer you right. Men and women think different, and women are more level-headed in this respect. So, when a man’s makin’ moves in business, it’s like a cycle: earn, secure, repeat. Some folks just blow it all each time. It’s all about earnin’ and keepin’ it. And that’s where a wifey can step in and help you out. Marry when you find the right one, dig?
Now, a common question pops up a lot: how to find the right person, right? Lemme drop some wisdom your way. First off, look at the mama if you’re checkin’ out a girl. The mom sets the tone, sets the example for the child to follow. When a girl grows up, besides her mom, she’s got nobody else to look up to, and eventually, she’ll emulate what her mom did. It’s like an apple not fallin’ far from the tree, ya know what I mean? Before you lock it down, get to know the fam, meet the momma, peep the family dynamics. If you’re a dominant guy and she grew up with a weak dad and a dominant mom, it’s a sign — she might wanna take charge later on. Watch their actions, how they vibe with each other, ’cause family dynamics are all about them relationships, man.
First:
Yo, listen up! So, like, here’s the deal — when you’re eyeing a girl, peep her mom first ’cause moms set the tone, ya know? They’re like the ultimate role model for their kid. As the girl grows up, she’s all about her mom, and sooner or later, she’ll start mirroring her mom’s moves. She might rebel when she’s younger, maybe even have fights with her mom, but as she hits her 30s or 40s, she’s totally gonna fall into those familiar patterns. It’s kinda like «like mother, like daughter» vibes, there’s some truth to that for sure. That’s why it’s crucial to get to know the family dynamics before you tie the knot — meet the fam, get a vibe for the mom, and suss out those family roles. Like, if you’re the alpha dude and her dad’s a pushover, with a dominant mom, that’s a signal: she’ll probably wanna call the shots later on. Check out how they interact, the dynamics between the mom and dad ’cause family is all about relationships, man. So, rule number one: if you’re eyeing a girl, check out her mom and how they roll as a family.
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Okay, so like, when it comes to money, don’t be all obsessed with it or chasing after fancy brands, ya know? That’s where you gotta find that balance and not be too materialistic. And even if a girl pretends like she doesn’t care about money, trust me, she’s still checking out those financial stats. It’s all about that indifference to wealth and luxury. You can spot her right away — decked out in all the designer gear, living above her means, and you just know her family can’t afford that lifestyle. It’s not just about one thing, it’s a vibe you pick up on, that she’s more about the show than real life. Now the girls who really don’t care, you can see it in everything they do. They won’t pressure you for gifts, take you out to expensive restaurants, or put any other kind of strain on you. It’s just obvious. Why is this whole indifference to material riches so important? Well, if she’s not indifferent, she’ll constantly stress you out with her high expectations. If you don’t meet them, it’s gonna lead to fights, she’ll call you a loser, and start eyeing other guys who seem cooler than you. Because for her, that’s what matters, you feel me?»
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Okay, so when you’re looking for a wifey, it’s key to check out her squad. Ideally, she shouldn’t have too many. Why? Well, when a girl has a ton of friends, it’s a red flag if her crew is all about money, showing off, and all that jazz.
Here’s the deal. You’ll end up in this never-ending competition with her friends’ hubbies. And with a bunch of friends come all kinds of materialistic expectations — one guy buys her a bag, another hooks her up with a ride, a third jets her off to the Maldives. It’s a whole show. Unless you’re a billionaire.
Now, when wives start comparing hubbies or when friends start flexing their material wealth, it’s a hot mess. Because when she sees all that, she’s gonna come home with this ultimatum — either cut ties with her squad, which she probs won’t, or she’ll nag you to spend on dumb stuff, work more, or earn more, no matter the ethics. Like bribes, shady dealings, you name it. And you can bet that’s how she’s gonna raise the kids too.
Hold up, what if her friend is a total gem with good values? Well, if she’s that great, it’d be ideal for her to have no friends at all and for you to be her main bro. But the fewer friends, the better. ‘Cause the fewer the friends, the realer they are. So if there’s just two or three in her crew, and you’ve hung out with them, you’ll notice they have deep convos, talk about legit stuff, and you’ll get a sense of their mindset. But with a big group of friends, it’s all small talk, who knows what. But having a bunch of friends also means more risks. That’s why less friends, the better. Not like she shouldn’t have any at all, but she should always put her man above her friends, no questions asked, and be ready to ditch her squad if it’s for the fam. It should never even be a problem for her.»
Conclusion: If you compare the three criteria, then with a probability… I never say 100% probability, but with a 90% probability you will have a good, happy marriage.